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so, i have a friend, she's a beautiful blondewoman and she was telling me about a guy that she used to date. and the way she described him, i was actuallykind of shocked because she described this guy as he's really not attractive. in fact, he's overweight, he's out of shape,he's not a very nice guy, his personality is pretty rude and he doesn't even have thatgreat of a job. and so, i'm looking at her, i'm like, well,claudia why would you even have dated this guy? and, it turns out that he was an amazing texter.


despite them having a long distance relationshipand they're only seeing each other every other month, this woman whenever she would get offthe plane, she was like i could not wait to see him. i had we had built up so much anticipation,i looked past all those other faults. well, in today's video guys, i'm going toshare with you five tips five secrets to build up sexual anticipation through texts. okay. so, i know this isn't my usual affair hereat real men real style, but i think that actually being able to text correctly is importantto be able to build relationships whether


you're single or whether you're married andcommunication skills in general. being able to master those is very stylish. now, to make this really useful for you andinteresting, i brought in an expert, claudia cox. she actually did the guest post which i'mgoing to link to right over here and it's got some great tips. but, in this video, i'm going to focus inon five which i think you're going to find very useful for basically if you're datingsomeone, if you've been married for ten years that you can get that person excited to seeyou and, well, guys you can take it from there. tip number one to build sexual tension throughtext is to text her something thoughtful.


i know guys not mind-blowing very simple,but most of us don't text her at all. we assume that the women that, yeah, our wifeor our girlfriend, she knows how we feel about her. well, no, she doesn't, you've got to actuallysend that message. so, let me give you an example of somethingthat you could text to a woman maybe that you are just starting to date, someone thatyou may be work with you're doing projects with. you could send her a message, you did a greatjob getting everything done for the conference. i'm amazed at how you handle stress. i'm also amazed at how cute you are. a little bit of a smiley face emoji there.


so, having a little bit of fun with it guysand as you can see you're keeping it a little bit professional. you're talking about handling stress at theconference, but you're also at the end of it pointing out that you find her attractive. and, guys this always -- this is buildingup the anticipation. tip number two to build sexual tension throughtext is to show vulnerability. let me give you an example, last night wasone of those rare occasions i never wanted to end. okay. so, you are laying it out there and a lotof guys are very careful about this. they they for some reason they want to havethat tough guy look and i admit that looking


cool it definitely has its place and purpose. but, it's okay to occasionally be vulnerableespecially if this is someone that you've already been dating especially if this isyour wife. another example, it's not every day i meetsomeone like you. i want to know more. okay, so you are definitely putting yourselfout there for rejection, but understand gentlemen this is something that we need to do. if you never try, you're never going to succeed. tip number three to build sexual tension throughtext is to compliment her.


let me give you an example, i'm sure you getthis all the time, but, you are incredibly attractive. i know some of you guys are saying, antonio,come on, so you're stating the obvious. of course, you need to compliment her. as we get into a relationship, we start toforget this. so, this tip right here is really for thoseof you that have been in a relationship for a while. take the time to send your wife a really nicecompliment for no reason than you simply love her. start building it up saying i can't wait tosee, you know, i just -- you've been on my


mind all day or, you know, that you -- whatyou are wearing this morning, i just loved the way you look as you headed out that door. please come back home. i mean stuff like that it's like when someonegets it, they're like, wow, like, you know, it really it gets their mind going and that'sit guys that's how you build that anticipation, you get her thinking about you. tip number four, remind her of a shared memory. and that's key gentlemen, it needs to be aboutboth of you together and it needs to be something positive.


the goal here is for her to remember and toassociate you with that great feeling that you two shared together. now, here's a couple examples, i can't findmy favorite boxer shorts. i wonder if they're under your bed? so, obviously you're reminding her of a littlebit of fun you guys had. here's another one, sitting here at the officethinking about last night. your laugh, the conversation, everything wasperfect. so, that one is great for after you may behad one or two dates and, you know, that one right there doesn't insinuate anything toomuch, but it just goes to show that you enjoy


spending time with her. she thinks about last night, she respondsback with her memories of something that she enjoyed; the taste of the wine the way thatyou had prepared the food of seeing you get excited whenever that movie ended up takingthat interesting twist. those are shared memories and that's whatlife is about guys. and you want to make sure to, you know, youexpress that and text is a great way to do it. tip number five to build sexual tension throughtext is to tell her how much she means to you. guys, and this depends a lot on the relationship. where are you at with the relationship, howlong have you been together?


you know if you've been with someone for tenyears, it's going to be very different if the relationship is only ten days old. but, it is something that you want to expressyour emotions. again, the goal here is to get across thefact that you're thinking about them so that they start to think about you. that builds the anticipation, it gets youboth excited to see each other. so, let me go to those of us that have beenin relationships for over ten years. well, we're not probably doing anything likethis very often. yeah, we say that we love the other person,but do we actually break out, you know, you


are -- you mean everything to me, you havegiven me four beautiful children, you make my life so much better, i can't imagine lifewithout you. i love you. boom! send it. yes. they should know i mean i think my wife shouldknow that's what i think, but i need to put that down because i don't do it enough times. for those of you that may be are in ten-dayrelationship, send a simple one like this, what are your best qualities besides beingcute, smart, and sexy?


dying to find out. well, that one right there is talking aboutthe future and that you already know that she sexy that she's cute that she's smart. so, you're saying great things about her andyou want to learn more. you're saying that, hey, i'm curious, you'rebeing a little bit vulnerable. and, guys, that's what all of this is about. all right, gentlemen, bonus round. i've got two more points i want to throw inhere because they apply to all five points. one of you want to make sure to do, the otherone you want to avoid.


so, the first one use emojis, show emotion. now, don't overdo it. don't send, you know, a hundred emojis, butmaybe after every other sentence throw in a fun little figure. there's a lot of different options out there. you're going to find them on pretty much anysmartphone out there you'll be able to locate it. but, by using those emojis guys there arestudies out there that show that these guys are perceived as more fun, more ambitious,more enjoyable to be around, and apparently it leads to more sex.


now, what you want to avoid is misspellings. guys, that's bad, you know, so be very careful. read things before you send them out and don'tmisspell things. it basically makes you look bad and all ofa sudden the intelligence level the perception of how smart that person is that�s sendingthe text goes down and that can really offset even if you use lots of emojis. all right, gentlemen. now, it's your turn. let me know in the comments how we could havemade this video better, maybe something that


we missed. and if you've got a texting secret, why don'tyou go ahead and share it. i love learning from you guys and the greatcommunity we built here at real men real style is reflected in the way that you guys commentdown there and add value to every single video i put out. now, if you want more, i've got the supportarticle. in that support article, i actually go overa number of tips i didn't even cover in this video. i also link you over to claudia cox over attext weapon. she's the one who helped me put all this together.


she is the texting expert and if you wantto learn how to text anybody and basically get, you know, make yourself more attractivebe, you know, it also applies to work and business. but, if you want to learn how to text andbe the man when it comes to texting, claudia is the person you want to check out. guys, that's it. take care. i'll see you in the next video.


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